I grew up in a conservative family. I have the same beliefs that I grew up with and never thought that I wanted to change how I was raised. I do think the evidence presented about the family form is somewhat true because in my family we keep our traditions tight. How my grandparents raised my parents were way more strict ad they knew that when they had kids of their own they wanted to be more lenient. Such as letting us hangout with our friends and have sleepovers and the stuff they weren’t allowed to do but moral wise my parents taught us just as their parents did and I am so grateful for that.
I think giving your kids a choice to be so freely and to go experiment and letting this world bring them into such a brainwashed mindset is not okay. Each family has their own beliefs and that is completely okay. I personally would not like my future family to be care free. Every child needs structure and to be told right from wrong. I do not want to steer my family in the future the way I see carefree people do. I want to restrict my kids in certain ways knowing that I have to set boundaries so in the future when they are off on their own or when I’m not with them that they will know how to go about a situation.
